Books

Endorsements on The Language of Trauma

The Language of Trauma is a book everyone walking through any form of pain or trauma needs to read. Every page spoke to me because I could relate. Dr. Osuiwu clearly points to the ultimate source of healing—God Almighty. I especially appreciate how she harmonizes science, real-life struggles, and faith in God as the Great Healer throughout this work. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to every grieving and traumatized individual. It will lead them to the truth and to lasting restoration.” — Prof. Olaitan Ruth-Thecla Olateju (PhD) Professor of Human Anatomy, Kampala International University, Tanzania

Trauma is a language few wish to speak, yet many are forced to learn. It whispers in sleepless nights, echoes in broken confidence, and lingers in the unspoken griefs that shape our lives. For countless individuals, trauma is not just an event of the past but a persistent presence in the present—colouring relationships, choices, and even dreams. In The Language of Trauma, Pat gently but powerfully gives voice to this silent weight. She helps us name what once felt unnameable and to frame experiences that were once overwhelming. More importantly, she illuminates the path beyond trauma—a journey toward wholeness, healing, and hope. This book is not just about survival—it is about thriving, reclaiming joy, purpose, and the fullness of life. Pat reminds us that trauma, while shaping us, does not have to define us. With wisdom rooted in both scholarship and lived compassion, she offers practical ways to transform wounds into wisdom and pain into purpose. To read this book is to embark on a journey toward freedom. It is an invitation to live beyond the shadows, to embrace healing, and to step into the light of a fulfilled life—not just for ourselves but as a gift to others and to generations to come. May this book mark the beginning of your own healing, and may its insights guide you into a future where your scars no longer confine you, but instead inspire others to rise”. — Elsie Ada Olaluwoye (BMR [PT], MSc Med.S, MCSP UK) MD/CEO, Optima Health London Physio

“This book, “Language of Trauma,” is rich in theological, intellectual, and professional insight. It offers practical guidance for handling traumatic experiences and for emerging stronger and wiser. I highly recommend it to every home, intending couple, parent, teacher, business manager, employer, politician, pastor, and church leader—indeed, to everyone who deals with people, finances, or responsibility. Thank you, my precious sister. I am thrilled by the depth of revelation you have shared with humanity through this book”.

“Trauma is a real, life-threatening experience that speaks so loud, yet is often ignored”.
In 1 Samuel 30:1-9, we see it in the camp of David. He and his soldiers had gone to battle, leaving the camp unguarded and vulnerable. The enemy attacked, took the women and children captive, and left devastation behind. When David and his men returned, they were overcome with distress, grief, and blame—some even plotted against their king. But David chose to seek the Lord. Through prayer, he found strength and divine direction for recovery. This teaches us that careful planning can reduce situations that lead to trauma, and that the right response—taken in time—can bring deep healing. As John 16:33 reminds us, ‘In Christ Jesus we have peace; in the world we will have tribulation, but take heart, He has overcome the world.’ Seeking counsel, just as David turned to Abiatha the priest, remains vital for restoration.